Does your evening look something like mine?
Dinner, baths, brush teeth, read book, lights out...
Drink of water...
Extra "mooch"...
Fan on, fan off...
And by the time the kids are asleep...
You would like to be...
I write this as a reminder to myself as much as to my readers...
When I find that my husband and I are bickering more than usual...
Not helping each other out as much...
Harboring the I do more than you attitude...
It is because we have allowed days to pass without really focusing on each other...
When I look at him, I overlook how handsome he is... How good he smells...
How his hand wraps perfectly around mine...
I've spent more time nagging than flirting...
Sitting on the other side of the couch when watching our favorite TV shows...
And yet in a simple moment...
One of us reaches out to the other...
A pure gesture of love and affection...
And it all comes rushing back...
I feel 15 again...
My heart rate soars...
I am 18 again...
And can't imagine living without him...
I am 30 again...
Promising forever...
We reconnect...
And our marriage survives...
The balancing act of parenting...